f r e d: Dancing Through The Pain

f_r_e_d is a drama film directed by Alexander Jeremy.  The film highlights the grieving process and shows the different ways in which people grieve after the death of a loved one.

This one hit home for me, I have recently in these last few months suffered a death in the family. So, the idea of having to get on with your life without someone you care about being in it is something I am all too familiar with. I think this film is an emotional triumph. It perfectly captures grief and loss in a way you can relate to.

My favourite moments in this film are when it gets abstract. There are sequences that just come out of nowhere, there is one very early on that is almost like a musical interlude of a man dancing, it is surprising and shocking, and it throws you off guard. I think these segments work perfectly as a reflection of the unpredictable nature of death; one minute you’re here the next you aren’t.

Of course this film has fantastic emotional stakes as well. Susie Kimnell goes through all the stages of grief in this film and nails them all, I completely bought that she was in mourning every second she was on screen; she was terrific, a breath of fresh air.

Overall, this is one struck a chord with me it reminded me of the emotions I felt, it made me laugh, it made me cry, but more than anything else it made me grateful. I highly recommend you check this film out!

Pros.

The performances.

The emotion.

Capturing the randomness of death.

It spoke to me.

It will speak to you.

Cons.

None.

5/5

Ps. Bring a tissue.

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